David Shipler Reports on the Working Poor

Garrett Griffin

NEW YORK, NY - SEPTEMBER 10: A homeless man sleeps under an American Flag blanket on a park bench on September 10, 2013 in the Brooklyn borough of New York City. As of June 2013, there were an all-time record of 50,900 homeless people, including 12,100 homeless families with 21,300 homeless children homeless in New York City. (Photo by Spencer Platt/Getty Images) *** BESTPIX ***

NEW YORK, NY – SEPTEMBER 10: A homeless man sleeps under an American Flag blanket on a park bench on September 10, 2013 in the Brooklyn borough of New York City. As of June 2013, there were an all-time record of 50,900 homeless people, including 12,100 homeless families with 21,300 homeless children homeless in New York City. (Photo by Spencer Platt/Getty Images) *** BESTPIX ***

What if a major issue in the world was almost entirely ignored because people just don’t see it? Such is the case with the poor in the United States. Poverty is an often understated and largely ignored issue in the United States. We tend to overlook it since we see the number of poor in the poorest countries and in comparison to them our problem doesn’t seem as pad. In truth many of the poor, as David Shipler stated are “invisible” because they are constantly “working.” We have more poor than we think, but since we do not often see them on the streets and elsewhere in our normal day-to-day activities, the problem is invisible to us.

Mr. Shipler, a Pulitzer-prize winning former foreign correspondent and bureau chill for The New York Times, says addressing poverty is similar to “connecting the dots.” Without the connecting lines it is nothing more than a scattered constellation with no tangible meaning or useful interpretation. Without a good understanding of the problem, how can one hope to address it? It can’t be, which brings us to Shipler’s explanation of some of the larger stars in the constellation of poverty. Crossing the poverty line is similar to a minefield. One misstep can send you back to square one. Because of this, according to Shipler, the ability for one to make the path out of poverty usually requires good luck and fortune, since pure determination will usually not get you out of the pit of poverty.

Dr. David Shipler having a discussion with students at the informal luncheon earlier that day.

Dr. David Shipler (far left) having a discussion with students at the informal luncheon earlier that day.

Shipler, who spent the day on the campus of Texas A&M Texarkana on November 10th, says “poverty” is the still picture and “debt” is the moving picture. Poverty is not static and results in accumulating debts for simple things such as food and water, items most Americans take for granted. Those who are in poverty are not aware of this. Shipler says this is because poverty is relative. If you are surrounded by poverty with it being all you see, your place in the visible community is not at the bottom, but equal to everyone else. This life of always living in poverty can lend itself to a sense of “learned ‘hopelessness’” whereby, people don’t want to try an advance themselves because they have an inherited sense of no hope for the future. Advancement within the affluent society, that they stand on the edge looking in on, is nearly impossible and rationally non-attainable.

Shipler says the poor often wear the “camouflage of work.” This lends itself to invisible to mainstream society. The reason no one sees the poor in America is because they are the waitress, the women at the drycleaners, the cashier at the restaurant where they are putting on their façade for work: the uniform. If seen in the context of their home, one could see the true state of the hardworking, unseen poor.

If a child remains poor through his middle and junior high years of schooling, a child’s dream for the future, a future where he or she is not poor, dies. This is why numerous children drop out of school once this dream is crushed and enter the workforce to continue the decades-old cycle of working to just survive.

Eagle Hall is a hive of activity as Dr. Nakashian prepare to make his introduction at Dr. Shipler's presentation.

Eagle Hall is a hive of activity as Dr. Nakashian prepare to make his introduction at Dr. Shipler’s presentation.

Shipler gives one reason for the difficulty of addressing the issue of poverty is in its very structure. Rather than existing as a culture in society Shipler says in reality it has more in common to an ecological system with all of its intricacies, lending to a simple fix not existing for the problem.

One of the key links in the cyclical nature of poverty, says Shipler, is the issue of housing. Research shows when the bill for rent comes due and money is tight as usual the food budget is the first to be cut back. The reduced amount of food in the early stages of childhood can lead to developmental issues with children particularly neurological maturity. This can lead to bad choices perhaps being made by these underdeveloped children, bad choices that strengthen the grip poverty has on the families that originate form poorer communities.

Another issue affecting the poor comes when they apply for a job. People can develop a fear of work when they have had numerous failures. Such fear can keep people from ever applying for jobs and keeping them form taking the first step out of poverty. In Shipler’s interviews with people to compile his book he often saw the issue of fear come up in conversation with the interviewees. Its prevalence leads Shipler to assert that the issue is real and haunting.

Shipler’s ideas bring up an important issue for discussion. The poor in America are a forgotten group. Pushed to the side, left out in the open with no visible safety net. Federal programs exist to help combat the issue but a majority of those are under-utilized as of a direct campaign by those in charge to keep expenditures down why still taking the credit for providing such programs. Texas A&M University- Texarkana is proud to have hosted such an important discussion on such an important issue. The University hopes to be a forum for numerous future discussions on equally important issues.

The Need For History

Anthony L. Hamilton

I have been paying really close attention to the things that are going on, not just in the United States, but all over the world recently, and in my eyes, the 1960s are repeating right now.

In the 1960s we were involved in a war we couldn’t win called Vietnam. This war ruined the lives of countless American military personnel, and frankly it was a war that we should have never become involved in.

Fast forward to the present, President Obama has his own Vietnam to deal with, and we are involved some missions that we shouldn’t be involved in.

We are dealing with people who have no conscience, and will do almost anything for the sake of trying to dispel Democracy.

The sad thing is that a lot of these terrorists were actually trained by our military supposedly enabling them to fight other groups in their regions, yet they continue to turn on us, and people seem to have no idea why we have trouble defeating them on the battlefield.

My problem with the whole thing is that those people have been fighting since Biblical times, so how does anyone think they’re going to react when we go on their soil and try to force our way of life on them? I don’t by any means condone what they do, but how does any person feel when someone else tries to force their way of living on them? You will constantly get rebellion.

I am a retired military member, and there are two blatant mistakes being made that are going to make war increasingly difficult to win. The first is the fact that the media has too much access to military operations. Every time a news anchor on location signs on and tells where they are, not only are they telling the American people, but they are also tipping off the enemy. This began towards the end of my career, and at that point, the writing was on the wall.

America has also shifted too much towards relying on technology instead of manpower to try and win wars. In the process, military numbers have shrunk to the point that soon it will be impossible to protect home, and fight war abroad, and as far as using technological warfare, the Chinese have shown they are superior in this area. Should we ever enter a war against them (as I personally believe), not only will we be outnumbered, but most technology comes from China, so they know just how to “run interference” and make sure your weaponry is not functioning properly.

I believe (and this is strictly my opinion) that China is watching and waiting for that time when our enemies get our military forces spread too thin to protect our borders, and they will do what they’re going to do. (Those of us who are Christians, if you read Revelations, it speaks to this happening.)

Back in the 1980s a treaty was signed that was meant to cut down on the nuclear arsenal of Russia, and the United States. Now China has ballistic missile submarines, and Russia is building a new class of that type of submarines, and both have the capability of dropping a nuclear warhead on the United States.

I had a young man on Facebook during a discussion ask how knowing history would help us move forward. To him, I replied that knowing history helps to keep history from repeating itself. So I close with this question: when history is allowed to repeat itself, you have old problems rearing their (sometimes) ugly head, and then you have to solve them. At that point, are you really moving forward?

Black Friday

Anthony Hamilton

Thanksgiving is rapidly approaching, and with it, Black Friday, is approaching as well. For those of us in retail, it’s a blessing and a curse. It’s a blessing in the fact that stores generally make more money on this day than any other shopping day of the year, however, it’s a VERY long workday for employees. On my job, at least 12 hours is guaranteed, however I have put in as many as 16 hours on Black Friday in my previous job as Mall Security supervisor.

A lot of people camp out in cold weather for hours, hoping for the chance to get their hands on greatly discounted items either for themselves or Christmas gifts. The whole experience can go bad courtesy of one person not getting what they came early for. It can turn quickly into a mob mentality, and I’ve seen many people hauled off to jail early on that day because they were too late to get what they wanted.

Many participate in the bargain shopping on Black Friday, but are totally unaware of the history behind it. It’s been said that it goes all the way back to slavery, and there is strong documentation that proves it’s true, however, I will concentrate on more recent history in my discussion of Black Friday.

According to blackfridayhistory.com:
The term “Black Friday” was coined in the 1960s to mark the kickoff to the Christmas shopping season. “Black” refers to stores moving from the “red” to the “black,” back when accounting records were kept by hand, and red ink indicated a loss, and black a profit. Ever since the start of the modern Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in 1924, the Friday after Thanksgiving has been known as the unofficial start to a bustling holiday shopping season.
In the 1960s, police in Philadelphia griped about the congested streets, clogged with motorists and pedestrians, calling it “Black Friday.” In a non-retail sense, it also describes a financial crisis of 1869: a stock market catastrophe set off by gold spectators who tried and failed to corner the gold market, causing the market to collapse and stocks to plummet.
As retailers began to realize they could draw big crowds by discounting prices, Black Friday became the day to shop, even better than those last minute Christmas sales. Some retailers put their items up for sale on the morning of Thanksgiving, or email online specials to consumers days or weeks before the actual event. The most shopped for items are electronics and popular toys, as these may be the most drastically discounted. However, prices are slashed on everything from home furnishings to apparel.

Yes, the holidays are upon us once again, and 2016 is right around the corner.
Remember, also, during the Christmas season, safety becomes paramount. When shopping, make sure that any purchases are stored in the trunk, rather than in view of a potential thief. Attempt to shop in numbers so you don’t appear to be an easy victim. During walks from a store to a vehicle, always stay diligent, a potential criminal is not as likely to attack someone who appears vigilant. Hopefully everyone will be safe, and have a great shopping experience on Black Friday and beyond.

Personally, I am not really looking forward to dealing with the shopping mob. We will be open beginning on Thanksgiving Day, and right back to work early Black Friday morning. If we can have another day with customers on their best behavior like last year that will be great.

Talladega Superspeedway

Leslie Arietta

Ladies and gentlemen start your engines! The crowd is loud and the race is about to begin. Grab a seat and watch the show because we have 200 laps to go!

November 13th on our way home from Georgia our women’s Eagles soccer team bus took a detour in Lincoln, Alabama. “What could possibly be in the small city of Lincoln, AL?” was my exact thought. The bus pulled up to the Talladega Superspeedway. The view from the bus was jaw dropping. The speedway was huge and made me feel like I was an ant next to a human.

At the Talladega Superspeedway they charge an eight dollar tour on the track, a twelve dollar museum/hall of fame tour or sixteen dollars for both. I was fortunate enough to do the tour on the track.

We got on the tour van and we began going through the north tunnel of the race track. The same tunnel the motor homes and race cars come through. As we were going around the track the tour guide was presenting fun facts about the Talladega Superspeedway. The maximum speed is 200 mph on the race track. As we go around the track we pass four of the turns that are 4 stories tall. The average speed to stay on the turn is 90 mph if not then gravity will kick in. In the middle of the race tracks is a grass field and that is where the overnight campers can stay for the race. As we cross the finish line to the left was Gatorade Victory Lane, which is the area where the winner of the race stands.

Spending eight dollars for the tour around the Talladega Superspeedway was a once in a lifetime experience for me. Being a girl from California I have been blessed to explore many states since I have been in Texas. If you are ever in Alabama I would suggest making a pit stop at the Talladega Superspeedway.

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Talladega Superspeedway-Lincoln, Alabama

Welcome to YouTube Red

The tech behemoth, Google, has announced a paid-subscription service to the most popular video streaming platform, YouTube. For over ten years, YouTube has been a worldwide phenomenon through its massive amounts of content anyone can create and watch almost anywhere. Perhaps the biggest chapter in YouTube’s short history is Google’s acquisition of the website in November of 2006 for $1.65 billion. Not soon after, in May 2007, YouTube introduced its Partner Program, allowing ad revenue to be distributed between Youtube (45%) and the content producer (55%). The company and content producers alike saw this as an opportunity to improve the quality of the videos, but YouTube garnered some criticism for the unavoidable advertisements put at the beginning, or the middle, of many videos, and the launch of YouTube Red may bring up even more criticism than before.

From the mobile app to their Cardboard virtual reality, YouTube has always prided itself as a service dedicated to enhancing the video-streaming experience for their viewers through constant adaptation, and YouTube Red is no different. With YouTube Red, subscribers will receive special features, including ad-free videos, the ability to save videos and music for offline access, or to keep videos or music playing outside of the YouTube app, an audio-only option through the YouTube Music app, and a Google Play Music subscription at no extra charge. After a 1-month free trial, all of these benefits will be available for $9.99/month.

Upon closer inspection, it seems Google is addressing many of the complaints about intrusive ads consumers have thrown their way, but some content creators might feel they are being put in a tough position. With the launch of YouTube Red, any Partner Program member will be expected to sign up for YouTube Red, or all their videos will not be available to the public.

It is too soon to decide whether or not this new program will succeed in boosting content quality, but as always, Google is sure to draw a very polarizing reaction, as can be seen through the number of dislikes on this video announcing the new program.

Sources:

http://fortune.com/2015/10/22/youtube-red-content-creators/

http://www.engadget.com/2015/10/21/youtube-red-google-ad-free-video-subscription/

https://www.youtube.com/red

 

 

 

 

The Razorbacks stun the Tigers with a 31-14 Upset!

Percy Davis

Razorback Alex Collins rushing through LSU defenders. Photo credited to Gerald Herbert.

Razorback Alex Collins rushing through LSU defenders. Photo credited to Gerald Herbert.

November 14, 2015 the Arkansas Razorbacks shocked the world with an upset victory against the # 9 LSU Tigers. The Razorbacks came out rolling early, scoring on a 52-yard pass from Brandon Allen to Dominique Reed. The first quarter ended with the score at 7-0, Arkansas leading.

In the second quarter the Razorbacks kept the momentum going, scoring on an 80-yard rushing touchdown by Alex Collins. LSU couldn’t get anything going and kept turning the ball over on downs. Shortly after that Alex Collins scored another touchdown on a 5-yard carry. This put the Razorbacks ahead of the Tigers 21-0.

The Tigers scored before the first half of football ended but it wasn’t quite enough to win the game. The Razorbacks won the game 31-14 giving the LSU Tigers their second loss back to back. Heisman candidate Leonard Fournette struggled once again, only rushing for 91 yards on 17 carries and scoring one touchdown. The Razorbacks running back Alex Collins finished the game with 141 yards on 16 carries and two touchdowns.

The Tigers quarterback Brandon Harris was sacked five times, finishing the game with 271 yards on 21 completions out of 35 and one touchdown. The Razorbacks quarterback Brandon Allen had 141 passing yards and added two touchdowns to help his team get the victory over the Tigers.

Needless to say it was not a pretty day for the LSU Tigers in their home stadium, now referred to as Death Valley.

TAMUT Eagles Soccer Advance to Semi-Finals

Andy Verke Jr.

The Texas A&M University-Texarkana women’s soccer team took the field against #4 seed Fisher College (Boston, MA) yesterday in its first ever post-season match. The Eagles were in complete control from start to finish, scoring a total of 7 goals in the match.

Fallon Keller (JR/Bakersfield, CA) opened up the scoring fest in the 10th minute (1-0). Keller’s goal was the 1st post-season goal in TAMUT soccer history. At the 24:55 minute mark, Arika Elliot (SO/Washington, MO) also took part in the scoring fest by drilling a long distance shot into the back of the net (2-0). A little less than a minute later Fisher College finds the back of the net making the score 2-1. Since the goal by Fisher College, the Eagles did not look back. The Eagles Emilee Bybee (FR/Keller, TX) would put in a goal of her own off an assist from Fallon Keller and Samantha Sharpnack-Isom (3-0). Bybee’s goal would be the last of the first half.

At the half, TAMUT led Fisher College 3-1.

The second half wasn’t any different from the first half. At the 55:57 minute mark, Leslie Arietta (SR/Fresno, CA) provided a great ball for Jena Arreola (SR/San Jacinto, CA) who found the back of the net (4-1). Michelle Lee (FR/Frisco, TX) also found the back of the net in the 61st minute (5-1). Sharpnack-Isom put one past the goalkeeper after receiving a great cross by Alyssa Ybarra (FR/San Antonio, TX) in the 69th minute (6-1). Erin Almengor (FR/Bakersfield, CA) finished the scoring fest in the 83rd minute. Almengor’s goal was her first ever goal as an Eagle.

Arika Elliot was pleased with how the team stating, “It was a great start to our first post-season appearance in the school history and I think we made a statement. It was a total team effort with 7 different goal scorers”.

TAMUT Eagles will face the top rank Ashford today at 3 p.m. central time. The winner of today’s game advances to the A.I.I. Soccer Championship game. You can watch the live stream of the game at the Georgia Gwinnett Athletics page for single game or a tournament pass at a cost or you can follow the game for a live play-by-play feed.

Veteran’s Day Rewards

Anthony Hamilton

Once a year, in early November, there is a holiday set aside for America to honor those of us who basically “wrote a blank check, payable to the United States of America for an amount up to, (in some cases) our lives.”

Fact is, even though you may agree with the President’s views, as a servicemember, you have still taken an oath to defend the country whether you agree or not with what the country is trying to accomplish, courtesy of your service, at any given time.

Veteran’s day is a wonderful time to be a Veteran. Here in Texarkana, if you are a vet, you will have every opportunity to eat well, as most of the restaurants basically roll out the red carpet for us on Veteran’s day.

The benefits reaped vary by restaurant; some like Outback, Longhorn and Buffalo Wild Wings offered a free snack. Hooters offered a free entrée, yet others, such as Applebee’s and Texas Roadhouse offered veteran’s menus that consisted of full-meals. Golden Corral offered vets a buffet.

Yes, personally I love to eat, and for the first time in over 10 years, I celebrated Veteran’s day by making the rounds. I visited Hooters early for some chicken wings, Texas Roadhouse in the afternoon for a steak dinner, and a nightcap courtesy of Golden Corral where I happened to run into our veteran’s representative Robert Hernandez. It was definitely a welcome break from having to cook.

Another great thing about these meals is running into people that you may have served with and for whatever reason, you haven’t seen for years. It’s always fun to reminisce a little, as there are fun times in the military along with hard work.

As someone who spent almost 24 years in the United States Navy, I don’t always feel as though my service is appreciated. I’ve been homeless on more than one occasion for long periods of time, and despite having been healthy when I arrived at MEPS Shreveport back on March 9, 1985. I have a slew of medical problems now, and it’s always a stomp down, drag out affair when a claim is put in for disability. However I applaud them for giving me this opportunity to get (educationally) rehabilitated.

Despite all of the negative things I endure, the Veteran’s Day rewards are a reminder that there are those who appreciate all the family events missed, marital strains that many of us endured, all the way to not being at the bedside of a dying relative, also the nonsense bureaucracy that a wounded vet is guaranteed to go through upon returning home. To REALLY understand the commitment of America’s veterans you must wear the boots, or be a wife or child of a vet to understand the toll that it can take on them.

I am personally thankful for the Veteran’s Day rewards, because that’s the one time of the year when I realize that many really do appreciate our service.

The Truth about Truth — Article Review

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People don’t want to hear the truth.

Garrett Griffin

A Critique of “People Don’t Want To Hear the Truth, Particularly When It Comes To Dating” (2014) by Cody Hightower.

People don’t want to hear the truth, only what they want to hear to conform to society’s standards. Such issues in relationships can result in something, years in the making, falling apart when the truth comes out about one of the partners and their skeletons they have in the closet. This issue is easily transferable to other situations where, although the truth will result in less pain in the end, people will commonly take immediate pleasure over long-term reward to fill society’s demands.

The large effect of society in filtering what we hear is nothing more than a restriction on advancement. In many cases, it forces us to make uninformed decisions and uselessly spends valuable sections of the human existence. Despite Hightower’s article being a pithy editorialized piece it does bring up good, valid arguments against current normative expectations shaped by society’s prejudices against logic. They deserve to be questioned, contemplated and adjusted.

Examples abound where the truth is a lie and lies are the truth. Hightower gives multiple examples of why we should work towards truth, but three were the most salient: relationships, God and the afterlife, and society’s unrealistic expectations for persons. They seem true, but are they lies?

Hightower expresses his own experience in working towards near absolute honesty in almost all situations. One particular area of interest to him is in the realm of relationships. Hightower drew an analogy between the experience of buying a car or a home, a long-term investment, and the process of finding a partner. All three, according to Hightower, are big life decisions.

When you buy a car or a house you tend to inspect every aspect of it to learn all the “truths” about what you plan on investing your time, energy, and money into. In the case of relationships, according to Hightower, we dance around the truths and commonly invoke lies and deceptions because we do not want to hear the truths. People have a tendency to want to stay blissfully ignorant.

Hightower believes our want for half-truths and lies are a construct, or better yet, an effect of society and its structure. In a sort of self-perpetuating cyclic of lies and deception, the foundation for society, says Hightower, are lies. Because of this, society encourages its participants to do the same. By completing this society-prescribed task, the basis for our society is reinforced and supported. This pleasurable un-awareness, while working to support itself, also does inherent damage to the structure it inhabits.

Society has not yet gotten to a point where it has been failed by its own issues, but such processes retard society’s evolution. When a lie results in a conflict, the events built off of a lie fall with its uncovering. This puts the participants back at “square one” and they must begin again; having wasted valuable time. A counterargument to Hightower’s belief in people’s dislike of truth is that perhaps there is no truth.

For some people truth gets them nowhere and they see no reason to care about how it affects society. For many people, their entire existence is built on falsity. It is hard to argue against the validity of truth as a stronger basis to build upon, but not everyone is an advocate for truth. These aspects of the argument are more drawn from Hightower’s discussion rather than included as a part of his.

Hightower does not present a deep, philosophical analysis of the issue, rather a more pithy description of why he thinks people lie to one another. If Hightower were to provide more material to back his claims he would have likely a strong argument, but as it stands it is not entirely convincing, an issue more present in the next topic he discusses.

The second argument Hightower brings up involves religion or more specifically spirituality and questions about the afterlife. He says, despite his advocacy for the honest truth at all times, some instances call for lies. The example given is when a child asks a question like “Where do we go when we die?” a person has multiple answers they can choose from, but for simplicity and to avoid damaging the child psychologically, parents will avoid stating the obvious truth about where the body goes and what it becomes: worm-food.

Hightower fails to make a strong argument when he says a person who answers such a question with something about God or anything about a higher level of existence the parent is lying because, “No one knows if there is a God, no one KNOWS those things, and if they claim to, THEY ARE LYING.”

The reason Hightower likely believes this is the unfalsifiability of an existence of God. Since physical proof of his existence cannot be shown, he cannot exist. Hightower is flawed in his logic in his assumption parents or persons who answer the child with a reference about God do so with the intent of lying. If a person fully believes in an afterlife along with God and tells the child about it, the parent is not trying to hide any real truths.

This argument can be countered by stating the obvious omission of the worm-food explanation, but such supplementary answers can be added later when the child is old enough to comprehend the complexities of life. The parent did not lie, he/she only did not tell the whole truth. Hightower does not condone this as a form of lying, but his assumption that when one speaks of God they are lying is an unsupported claim.

The third issue Hightower’s brings up is the unrealistic expectations society expects us to conform too. These expectations lead us to lie to others and ourselves to our own eventual self-inflicted damage. Some of the examples he gives are logical. Hightower believes that when society tells you to buy a certain product or tells you to do something it is acting unnatural. It forces humans against all things human. This humanistic perspective is flawed though, because it does not assert the notion that not all things naturally human are good.

Some of the primitive instincts of humans are not desirable if the human race expects to make evolutionary progress. Hightower asks the question “We are supposed to fight and go against every instinctual thing about ourselves, for what? To alleviate suffering?” An answer to this structured question requires either a yes or no. The answer is not this simple. He goes on to give his assertion, “False beliefs are the very thing that CREATES suffering.” He is right in many ways. Some of the molds society creates for certain people require great pain and sacrifice to fit into.

The belief that all constructs built artificially by men are bad is simply not supported in Hightower’s argument. Some aspects of humanity are better-situated in society when they are restricted and the energy for those characteristics is channeled into other, less destructive actions.

One of these aspects is discussed by Hightower: the “false” monogamy of humans. He poses the question, “Humans are not monogamous, yet, we are supposed to strive for monogamy?” This claims that humans have the same tendencies of animals and instinctively strive for non-discretionary, non-exclusive sexual relations with other humans. Assuming this is true of the human species, can it really be a good thing? The issues that accompany multiple-partner relationships can generate substantial suffering to any or all of the involved participant. Not saying that suffering is alleviated by a monogamous relationship but, the repercussions of such versus the alternative surely swings in favor of the single-partner example.

With the pervasiveness of lying and deception in multiple facets of society it is no surprise people, once desensitized to falsity, are more receptive to it despite its eventual hampering of evolutionary progress. Hightower does brings the issue of truth not wanting to be heard by people to the table to be discussed, but the argument itself needs more support to explain why lying can be considered a bad practice almost universally.

Sex Ed

Ti’Ana Marshall

“Being a woman ain’t for the faint of heart” –Anonymous

When I was younger I admired my mother for her beauty. I watched her sweep on her ruby lipstick, fix her hair, and go about her daily task with the grace of 1,000 goddesses.

I wanted to be her—to slide my feet into a pair of heels, paint my face with a million different hues, and dare the sun not to shine my way. Repeatedly she would tell me “don’t rush baby-girl” or “baby-girl you’ll never need this stuff, you are beautiful without it”. I had a love hate relationship with the pet name “baby-girl”. I didn’t want to be a baby! I wanted to be a glamorous woman just like my mother.

It was not until I got a bit older that I began to recognize what her makeup was covering. The worry lines caused by outside and inside pressures, the blemishes and scars that never seemed to fade away. Not until I was older did I start to notice the growing pile of fitness and beauty magazines she seemed to read as if they were bibles. I eventually followed suit, reading article after article on what it meant to be a woman or what a “real woman” looks like. Nothing covered what was inside the mind of a real woman, only what her appearance consist of, and my mother’s words rang in my mind as I turned each page “don’t rush baby-girl”.

I did not realize what she was really trying to teach me until now.

To be a young woman still means my body is not my own, and it is considered brave for me to think so—and speak up.

Sexual assault is an act not taken seriously enough. Assault comes in several forms including forced sexual behavior, and uninvited touch.

According to a recent study conducted by CNN, 23% of women have been sexually assaulted on college campuses. Every 1 in only 3 women on college campuses is assaulted in some manner every year. This does not even cover the vast amount of assaults that go unreported. Why?

Though some may argue that society is evolving, its attitude toward women has yet to make a complete 360. Girls are still being taught to not be distractions for young boys, reiterating the lesson that her body is not her own. Instead it is an object that at any time can be hyper sexualized and it is her duty to maintain its purity.

Recently this concept has been taken to the extreme. A story covered by Msnbc.com focused on the shame suit epidemic.

A shame suit is an outfit given to students who break the dress code at their school, and are loud colors intended to bring attention to their deviance. The story featured on Msnbc discussed a young girl who was told her skirt was to short and therefore distracting. The school called for a skirt to only be 3 inches above the knee—her skirt was 4. According to policy, the student was supposed to be given the option to call home for a change of clothes; however, this option was not presented to her and she was given the shame suit to wear instead. Ultimately, she ended up being picked up early from school after breaking down to tears to the point of hyperventilation.

Shame suits are growing in their popularity as schools claim that they are buckling down on their dress code procedures. These procedures however, most often target young girls who are then labeled as distractions.

These shame suits are a disgrace, and are a reminder to our young girls that it is their job not to bring the attention of boys. Boys who turn into young men are therefore learning that it is not their fault if they assault a young lady—it is her fault for wearing provocative clothing.

For the record, a young man can be provoked from a young lady wearing a brown paper bag if she as much smiles in his direction.

A short video shot by Dailymail.co.uk proves that very point.

In a short video, a hidden camera follows women walking through the city of New York, as they are being cat called by various men. None of these women respond to the cat calls, and are either called out of their names, followed, touched, or all of the above. As this is happening, no one comes to their rescue, not one soul says a word to any of the men being disrespectful and these women are being sexually harassed in the open. Once again the video rings with the message that as a woman your body is a magnet for unwanted touch, unwanted attention and it is no fault of the man.

Then there is the other side of the coin.

Nigerian author and feminist, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, gave a powerful feminist speech that artist Beyonce sampled in her song “Flawless”. The author states:

“We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.”

We live in a society where being a woman is equal to being an object and any man is allowed to stake his claim without being reprimanded; however, the second a woman chooses to claim her body as her own she is labeled as a slut, or worse.

Amber Rose is the personification of such. In October of this year, she launched her very own movement entitled “Slut Walk”. Its purpose? To let women everywhere know that yes, women are allowed to be sexual beings, and it is ok to stake claim to your own body without being shamed for it. After all, men do it all the time and are in fact congratulated for their behavior.

The movement has gained both support and of course backlash. I, for one, admire her bravery and in fact find it sad that to be a woman claiming your own body is even considered an act of bravery in the first place.

Rose’s movement has given women the courage to own themselves, telling men everywhere that no does mean no, and while you may look, you must ask to touch.

It should not be considered an act of bravery for standing up for oneself when it comes to personal space being violated. Nor should it be considered brave for a person to stake claim on her own body. This should be normal, but sadly it is not.

I will teach my daughter that her body is her own, she can say no without feeling bad about it and if she ever feels uncomfortable she is allowed to stand up for herself.

She is not an object free to be hyper sexualized and blamed for the behavior of a boy who was not taught to keep his hands to himself.

We need a sexual education revolution. Young boys need to be taught to view women as humans not objects.

It is far past time that our girls stop being blamed for being distractions.